Orgy Rules & Guidelines

If you are like me you are tired of going to misguided unorganized and poorly thought out orgies. People seem to think that if you get a bunch of people together and get them naked it is an orgy. Not true, a successful orgy requires a bit more planning than movie night with co-workers.

Here I am going to set some misconceptions straight and provide you with rules and guidelines that will make your next sexual mixer a big success.

First the definition of an orgy; many people think that any sexual encounter involving more than two participants is an orgy. While the dictionary’s definition is: a group activity involving unrestrained indulgence you should know that – three or four does not an orgy make.

Typically there must be a minimum of six participants to be considered an orgy, numbers fewer than six is simply group sex. Where the mixture of your group is left to preference it is recommended that you keep a good boy/girl balance.

Most importantly though are the three rules of orgy engagement. It is important to outline these to your guests at the beginning of the evening. You may also have additional rules specific to your event which we will cover later.

Rule #1: No means no!
This is self-explanatory, if someone says NO then their wishes should be respected.

Rule #2: Do not do what cannot be done!
This simply means don’t try and do something to someone else if you are not into the act yourself. There are exceptions to this of course, for example if you are asked by the person specifically to do it. In general however this is a good rule to follow.

Rule #3: Equal time rule!
Equal time must be given to all participants of which whose sex matches that of your preference unless a) their sexual preference is that other your sex. b) They have indicated that you specifically are not to engage them. c) Orgy boundaries are restricted by predefined criteria (see Church Orgy below)

Basically this means that you should make your way around the room, there is a difference between being at an orgy and in an orgy.

When looking for an orgy to attend you should be aware of the different kinds of orgies. Most new comers prefer a more structured event, this is a Class 3 orgy or commonly referred to as a “Church Orgy”.

In a Church Orgy pairings are made based on predefined criteria such as marital status. This is a good way to get your feet wet and get comfortable with the experience.

A Class 3 orgy often evolves naturally into a Class 2, sometimes called a “Book Club”. This is where people start to break away from their pairings and move around the room but in general everyone already knows each other.

Once you are ready for the real deal then you can venture into the Class 1 orgy also referred to as a “Cluster Fuck” or “Sweat Pit”. This is a sexual free for all in which participants may be perfect strangers and no predefined criteria are set.

Hopefully this bit of information makes your orgy going experiences more enjoyable and remember whether it is an orgy of six or sixty, be safe, be courteous and have fun.

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